Flour,
sugar and tradition of caring
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Kent
Harding, a member of the Public Works crew, made a delivery to
Dee Bryce during the Village’s
annual flour and sugar distribution in 2001.
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When Wheeling
Gaunt prepared his will in the late 1800s, stipulating that the Village
deliver flour to local widows each Christmas season, he probably
didn’t imagine that the flour would be delivered in large white
vehicles fueled by engines rather than horsepower. And he probably
had even less idea that the distribution would be seen in homes all
across the nation via something called television, as happened in
1996.
Many things have
changed in the 107 years since Gaunt’s death in 1896. But some
things remain the same, especially the spirit of goodwill and caring
that comes with the Village’s annual holiday custom of distributing
flour and sugar to local widows.
“ I think
it’s wonderful,” one Lawson Place resident said on Monday,
when Kelley Fox, a member of the Village Public Works crew, came to
her door with her 10 pounds of flour and 10 of sugar. “It lasts
all year.”
“ Thank you,” another
said to Fox. “I appreciate it.”
“ It’s
a great program,” a Phillips Street resident said when she received
her flour. “I use it every year to make cookies and cakes. You
have a good holiday, now.”
Four members of
the Public Works crew — Fox, Joel Crandall, Kent Harding and
Vertis Douglass — spent all day Monday distributing the flour
and sugar to about 120 widows in town. All longtime veterans of the
Village crew, the men clearly enjoyed themselves as they went from
door to door in Lawson Place. As much as delivering food, they were
delivering a community’s caring, and they took that job seriously.
They offered holiday greetings, condolences to those not feeling well,
and most of all, to those who wanted to talk, they listened.
“ It’s
hard to get old,” said one Lawson Place resident as she told
Fox about a recent hospitalization. He listened patiently as the story
continued, then, at her request, took a look at a broken lock. At another
apartment, Fox cheerfully hauled out a bag of trash and placed it in
the receptacle by the street.
“ Some of
the women are lonely. They look forward to seeing the guys,” said
Roxie Potts, the Village administrative assistant, who assembles the
list of local widows. “Being able to help people and do something
nice — I’m just glad I get to be a part of it.”
Of course, the status
of widows has changed considerably since the late 1800s and many on
the list are current or former professionals with active lives and
considerable means of their own. But when they express discomfort with
receiving free flour and sugar, the men encourage them to accept the
gift in the spirit of Gaunt’s will.
“ You know,
the first year they came I said I don’t need it, give it to someone
else,” said Phyllis Duckwall, who lives in Park Meadows. “But
they said, it’s not about need, it’s about being a widow.” Now
comfortable with the tradition, Duckwall said the flour doesn’t
go to waste. “I use it,” she said. “It doesn’t
just sit on the shelf.”
Both Crandall and
Fox grew up in the village, and Harding has been here since high school.
The men have known many of the women since childhood, Fox said, and
that adds a personal touch to their visits.
That personal caring
seems to be what Wheeling Gaunt had in mind when he requested that
the Village take care of its widows. A former slave from Kentucky,
Gaunt arrived in Yellow Springs in the 1860s and became one of its
most respected citizens and landowners. In 1894 Gaunt deeded nine acres
of land to the Village, stipulating that the Village use the proceeds
from the property to buy flour for widows at Christmas. Although the
land, which has since been turned into Gaunt Park, no longer produces
income, the Village continues the tradition he began.
That the tradition
is unique became abundantly clear in 1996, when a story about it in
the Wall Street Journal sparked a media frenzy. That year, a half dozen
reporters from ABC, CNN and the Los Angeles Times came to Yellow Springs
to report on the flour and sugar distribution and ABC broadcasted the
story on its evening news.
“ It’s
a nice story,” the Yellow Springs News quoted ABC correspondent
Erin Hayes as saying at the time. “We need more nice stories.”
The flour distribution
process begins with a list maintained by Potts, who keeps up to date
on local deaths and new widows to add to the list. Sensitive to the
women’s grieving process, Potts calls each new widow to see if
she wants to receive the gift that year, or wait for the next. It’s
hard to make those calls, she said, but she doesn’t want the
tradition to cause pain rather than pleasure.
The men are also
sensitive to the needs of new widows on the list, whose names are highlighted
in red.
“ If it’s
the first year after a death,” Fox said, “sometimes you
need to lend an ear.”
Whether listening
to the recently bereaved or extending holiday greetings to active professional
women, the men of the Public Works crew, along with Roxie Potts, are
the ones keeping alive the tradition begun more than a century ago.
And they’re doing it in a way that would have made Wheeling Gaunt
proud.
— Diane
Chiddister
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